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From whuffle: Discipline, reticence, jitterbug, cheetah, cautious

Discipline: I was raised to be several adjectives, high
among them being "responsible", "reliable", and "polite".
Sometimes _not_ doing or saying something is discipline
keeping me from not being those adjectives. However, I
do wish I had more positive discipline focused on doing
either highly boring chores and/or highly creative work.
My laundry isn't folded, and my novels aren't written;
one wouldn't be too bad, but both undone is inexcusable.

Reticence: I've often found that showing one's feelings
leads more to avoidance (if the listener finds them
distasteful) or manipulation (if the listener has
evil or selfish motives) than sharing or connection.
I'd rather be simply invisible than actively shunned,
and I know my vulnerabilities too well to show them.

Jitterbug: one of the few places left in my life
where I have the energy and ability to be playful.
(I'd still like some of the others back, mind you,
and am pondering ways to return or to go on... but
at least for now I have this outlet for flow.)

Cheetah: as a kid, I read all the Born Free-type books
by Joy Adamson. I thought it would be neat to go live
with lions. Then, I read _The Spotted Sphinx", and my
allegiance shifted wholeheartedly to cheetahs for all
the things I saw we had in common. Nothing I've learned
since has done anything but intensify the feeling that
I would make a far better cheetah than I do a human.

Cautious: like Treebeard, making up my mind does not
take as long as going over all the facts. I think of
myself as a strong person with a lot of capacity for
intention, influence, or injury; thus I try hard not
to make bad decisions. I don't like to change my mind
once I have decided something, either -- even if the
situation around me has changed, I feel *I* may not;
or even if I *have*, I tend to honor my promises and
just wait for others to break theirs instead.

If you want to play along, reply to this post
by yelling (or even saying gently) "Words!" and
I will give you five words that remind me of you.
Then post them in your LJ and explain what they
mean to you.
Soundtrack: Duran Duran - Is There Something I Should Know
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From:kimberlogic
Date:April 30th, 2011 10:12 pm (UTC)
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words, please

*hugs*
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From:netpositive
Date:April 30th, 2011 10:47 pm (UTC)
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buoyant, hair, searching, central, scratches
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From:tacnukesoul
Date:May 1st, 2011 05:38 am (UTC)
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Words

(feels like the Readers Digest version of Hamlet - "what? He says the same thing three times. I'm just saving space. Now , I have to get back to The Four and A Half Commandments...")
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From:netpositive
Date:May 2nd, 2011 11:11 am (UTC)
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[Edited to replace the word I had at the beginning with the word I forgot at the end]

mustache, religion, worn, dedication, parent

(I like the plot summary from "That's Entertainment": "Where a ghost and a prince meet / and everyone ends in mincemeat...")
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From:cflute
Date:May 2nd, 2011 01:11 am (UTC)
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Was fascinated to read what you wrote about the five words you got. So I'll ask, politely, "Words, please?"
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From:netpositive
Date:May 2nd, 2011 11:15 am (UTC)
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talent, constraints, bravery, marriage, fear
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